I had to take this thread into another thread as I’m quiet nervously excited....
Emma (Wife of a tgirl) “You need some form of code with Esme if you're in a shop and see something you want for Davina don't let a bargain pass you by. Some good bargains on line too. Go back and get those stockings and the lingerie? Or would Esme get it for you?”
Davina “Yes a code word would be good as long as she doesn't give it the for God's sake look.
She did offer to get me the lingerie etc today but place is miles away”
Esme (Davinas wife) - “Just catching up on posts. Not been in for a while . sorry if I do that look , I didn’t realise I do it lol, 🙈 but in my defence how many times have I said if you see something to get it. ❤
yes it wouldn’t have been easy having the girls with you this time but you could have gone back and got it. We will have to sort what you need and go shopping”
Esme (Davinas wife) “We are off to London in a couple of weeks so we will do some shopping then for Davina x x “
Emma (wife of a tgirl) “Davina Esme is offering to treat you when was the last time you treated yourself some girly things? Let her help you but whatever you need and don't you dare clam up be confident about what you like in a shop and tell her you'd like it. Esme make sure whatever you're getting you make sure to stand back and watch him to to the till and have the embarrassment of paying for the items lol see if he goes red faced you need to have some fun with this too hehe oh i am evil.
What is it you fancy buying Davina?”
Esme (Davinas wife) “Emma I’m liking your style. It is me that usually has to go and pay but I think it will have to be a role reversal.😜 Looking forward to London for some quality time and I have suggested that Davina possibly comes out friday night for a walk around. Not sure I’m ready for going in a pub etc but a night time walk around is a good start. Small steps. Hopefully we can pick up all the bits Davina needs. 💄💍💃💅🏼👠👜🧣👗”
Davina “My payment for you doing this for me is the embarrassment of having to pay for whatever we buy .. deal”
Davina “Ok i will let Esme help me get some things there’s a big Primark where we're going that’s my type of price and to be honest they do do some nice womens clothing, lingerie, hosiery and shoes etc and many a time i've seen something and thought id like to wear that or love those fashion tights or that makeup looks ok i promise to be confident and not clam up after all miles from home who cares if were over heard saying things are for me or if Esme holds a dress against me to judge length haha”
“No idea what I'd like to buy id like a bra that covers my fake boobs more, maybe a new body all in one as mines ripped no idea on what size maybe some tights something to tease myself with the possibility of leaving the hotel dressed if I’m confident I look ok will my wig pass is my biggie and how i wear it to look natural as i pull it all forward usually but is this right??.. maybe get to buy a dress which isn’t a hand me down from Esme i literally have no idea until we go there but if Esme wants to embarrass me that's fine too you're a bad influence Emma lol”
Esme (Davinas wife) “We will have fun in London and get you all you need. Maybe Davina and I go for an evening stroll Friday night . Love you x”
Davina “Love you too massive step but if its dark and raining and i buy something casual smart to wear may just get away with it gulp. The hardest thing may be leaving the hotel, but I’ve done that once before in a dress lol...Maybe have to have a girls night in come up with a plan and a look and maybe give me some fem lessons OMG it's on how frigging exciting lol (butterflies in my stomach thinking about it)”
So watch this space 4 weeks time a brave move for both of us venturing out for a walk maybe a dark corner of a pub eeeek
Davina
Great idea from Esme what to do with me dressed... Cinema!! It's
They look really nice, I’m looking for something similar as my current ones which look a bit like the photo below are wearing badly, as I have been wearing them a lot even in male/androgynous modes
No Esme ordered the ones I saw today
Does that mean you will be trying Ladies boots in ASDA?
I saw some cheap jewellery in Primark and rings really cheap will look in London.
Saw boots today in Asda awkward with the kids there. I could pop and get these on my own in the week maybe.
Need to check my outfit and see if Esme has a scarf to match with a coat.
Have you thought about accessories?
Earing, ring, some costume jewellery and maybe a scarf all helps to blend in and disguise.
If weather is like today an umbrella will help too if you don't feel confident
Em
Good luck for next week Davina, hope you have a wonderfull time in london.
We are expecting a blow by blow of how it all went.
Higgins is jeggins ix strikes again
We'll do it only worry is my injured leg.
Wix is a pain with gobledegook.
Will try to try a few jackets out in the week or Friday morning before we go bus y week ahead and I'm away with work but unable to dress away too many work collegues.
Little one had no idea she was helping me look for some boots for Esm e but didn't get any as was looking for a certain type and couldn't find any at a reasonable price but did buy some cheap Higgins to try lol £4.50 still struggle to spend money on Davina.
Dark nights will hide Davina lol and work is a pain should settle down when they fill my old post talk of getting in two people to do w hat i was doing alone.. Typical.
So next shopping attempt will be in London but have something to wear if we don't find anything.
Dav
You’d better go through with this you two the suspense of it all!!
some gobledogook in your post Davina haha Wix website struck you too try a few of Esmes coats on let her tell you what suits
Did you look for a few things when in Cardiff and did your little one twig they were for you hehe how old? they’re not stupid.
Gets dark about 1800 no one will notice you hope you find something nice to wear and if its a dress you want to go for go for it hon x
You’re all work work work you need some play play play Davina dont get stressed out again I’ve told you before and sure Esme will have told you too don’t over work and Esme trust me if you notice stress tell him to put a dress on its some form of therapy hehe.
Looking forward to hearing how your shopping trip went with the little one.
Emma (Wife)
Go for what you will feel most comfortable in. Weather in your neck of the woods looks horrible at the moment!
Good luck next weekend and bothof you enjoy it and have fun.
jean
So by this time next week hopefully I'll be waking up in a hotel room having had a first outing as Davina with Esme.. It's still on we discussed it last night.
I have an outfit all set boots, jeggins, blouse and need to work it which jacket or cost of Wales I'm going to borrow the rest of the outfit is Esmes too.
Is rather have my own stuff so a bit of retail therapy in London and today popping to Cardiff with our youngest and may have a look for a few things.
It's gonna be dark when we go out still debating if a dress would be ok i suppose depends on the cost and how it may go with boots not high heels just a low heel maybe 2.5 and maybe some thicker designer rights who knows what the weather will be like.
No opportunity at a dress rehearsal this weekend or next week due to work commitments so final outfit decision will be made Friday before we step out.. Quite
Not happened yet another 2 weeks..
Is there a post event report for this yet? The suspense is killing me
Are you online Davina has Esm e read our chat have you Esme? Lol might as well ask you not Davina.
Em
Tha ks for the chat have a fab weekend too
nCan't do next Friday house full of kids sleepover
Byree
DAVINA
so excited for you a pity Esme is out we could have had a chat now not that im saying i dont want to chat with you lol sounded rude but nice to chat live to Esme
Anyway ill let you get on with the NFL tell Esme to read my advice on jewelery and perfume and deodorant got to look convincing and smell convincing
Maybe catch up again same time next friday if Esme fancies a chat
Have a fun weekend bye for now
Em x
Good idea see what Esme says but will pack a dress too
See how you feel maybe pack a dress and tights can always go back to the hotel and put a dress on and tights if you feel braver and cover all your bases with your quest to go out as a girl