Having had a chat recently with another member on here, we discussed the whole "straightness" spectrum, and how if when we look in the mirror in girl mode we are a) attracted to ourselves somehow (ie our feminine image) b) if that therefore then follows that we can and would be attracted to other "girls like us", who ticked the attraction boxes.
Which then leads to a "well if you accept you are attracted" how far would you go to investigate that attraction and under what circumstances?
e.g We meet in fem mode for a drink/chat about being us etc....couple of drinks in one of our hands grazes the others stockinged legs. we know there is attraction there, does it ignite an inner desire? where does it lead to as the night progresses?
Being men primarily we are driven by arousal etc...would just a touch of a hand on our leg from someone we are attracted to enough to arouse us? do you think you could walk away/draw a line/keep your "beliefs" intact
or would you be driven by that carnal arousal desire from your man side to explore further as "noone will ever know and its just this once"?
Outcome we had was "probably yes"
I have read that the worst fear that wives have is their husband cheating on them. And then when they find out that the husband is really just into cross dressing, they are relieved. Once the initial shock is over those wives who decide to accept the cross dressing sometimes even feel empowered. Some even advance to the point where they take charge of the relationship and dominate their spouse now knowing they have something they can use to control them. Some even see it as a license to see other men and cuckold their husbands.
En femme I am definitely attracted to men. For me it is a matter of becoming as much of a woman as I can and also endulging my fetish of being humiliated. Out of dress women turn me on. Go figure.
Truth be told if I was single and couldn't hurt anyone then I would be more easy going about attraction. Definitely I am attracted by the female form and not blokes, but I am more attracted to someones personality as well. If I like them I like them.
I have to agree that there are some proper hot looking tgirls out there that definitely get the pulse racing.
I guess what it comes down to is I am faithful to my wife so I know I wouldn't do anything stupid to jeopardise what I have. I could certainly be attracted and enjoy the flirtation as it would be another element of how my female persona gets to experience this from a female perspective, sort of.
May be in another life....
thx for reply davina x finally someone did
was beginning to think it was just me and i was "weird"
hang on....you didnt agree....I AM WEIRD!
but joking aside yes, interesting to see if any other girls will or can reply, as its def the basis /manefestation of the whole you dress therefore you are gay thing, which is the usual reaction of wives/women...
i think its safe to say what we as humans will do and admit to in private is perhaps very different to what we will admit to on a website, particuarly if loved ones etc can see :)
Kimberly with another thought provoking post touching the fears of many wives no doubt about how Tgirls feel sexually about themselves and about other T girls..
"Straightness spectrum" that's a new one on me .. Sexuality spectrum maybe but for me straight is straight there's no spectrum then theres the 100's other sexualities Gay, Bisexual, and Poly etc etc and the one touched on here.
Yes I fancy myself as Davina, I can turn myself on seeing myself dressed and how i feel and how the clothing feels etc but thats "Autogenyphilia" i think as we've covered here before,, fancying yourself.
So that covers (a) Yes I fancy myself as Davina
b) if that therefore then follows that we can and would be attracted to other "girls like us", who ticked the attraction boxes.
I can look at other T girls and think wow she looks stunning. I love the female image and form so yes i can look at and in those terms fancy another T girls image in photos. Would that then lead to physical attraction accepting I can look at a t girl objectively and say wow shes stunning would i do anything sexual following a drink, a brush of a hand and would i let it go further.
Kims example e.g We meet in fem mode for a drink/chat about being us etc....couple of drinks in one of our hands grazes the others stockinged legs. we know there is attraction there, does it ignite an inner desire? where does it lead to as the night progresses?
Drink may loosen inhibitions but there would be a point where reality would kick in as a "real world situation" and for me it wouldn't go any further.
But i know this does go further as I've chatted to enough t girls to know it happens for some and others have the fantasy and dont act on it and others straight has no spectrum.
Interesting to see others perspectives on this and I bet its something a wife or girlfriend may worry about as we are "different" when we're dressed.
Davina