Having had a chat recently with another member on here, we discussed the whole "straightness" spectrum, and how if when we look in the mirror in girl mode we are a) attracted to ourselves somehow (ie our feminine image) b) if that therefore then follows that we can and would be attracted to other "girls like us", who ticked the attraction boxes.
Which then leads to a "well if you accept you are attracted" how far would you go to investigate that attraction and under what circumstances?
e.g We meet in fem mode for a drink/chat about being us etc....couple of drinks in one of our hands grazes the others stockinged legs. we know there is attraction there, does it ignite an inner desire? where does it lead to as the night progresses?
Being men primarily we are driven by arousal etc...would just a touch of a hand on our leg from someone we are attracted to enough to arouse us? do you think you could walk away/draw a line/keep your "beliefs" intact
or would you be driven by that carnal arousal desire from your man side to explore further as "noone will ever know and its just this once"?
Outcome we had was "probably yes"
I have read that the worst fear that wives have is their husband cheating on them. And then when they find out that the husband is really just into cross dressing, they are relieved. Once the initial shock is over those wives who decide to accept the cross dressing sometimes even feel empowered. Some even advance to the point where they take charge of the relationship and dominate their spouse now knowing they have something they can use to control them. Some even see it as a license to see other men and cuckold their husbands.