1 Present well – I did go through an early phase of dressing trashy but as my wife found the day she came upstairs and met me dressed for the first time I presented well so well I think she was shocked by how i’d done my makeup and what I was wearing expecting me to look like a hooker or a drag queen – So I pass this one
2 Listen to your wife give her time to digest the situation – It was 8 years of talking and negotiation and different levels of acceptance before my wife met me crossdressed so I guess I pass this one too. Great to see some on here and in the blog and emails I’ve had have progressed to acceptance far quicker.
3 Keep it Discrete – Apart from people I chat with and in this Forum and Blog only my wife knows I crossdress and none of the people I chat to etc know male me so my dressing is very discrete so another Pass.
4 War your own clothes – Over the years I’ve worn other womens clothes to get the crossdressing fix but I now have more dresses than my wife, heels, lingerie, makeup etc so another pass.
5 Take Baby steps – As in number 2 we took baby steps of acceptance over a long period of time (too long lol) so I’m half way so Far 50% pass rate
6 No lingerie in bed – It would be fun to have some “fun” in lingerie in bed but i’d honestly prefer my wife to wear the lingerie in bed although I would if it was ok with her but I don’t so another pass.
7 Seek Guidance – I’ve sought lots of guidance from the internet, chatrooms and forums and if my wife had requested I’d have seen a counsellor but the result would have been we’d have talked openly and set boundaries and I’d still crossdress… I think this is a pass
8 Respect your wife – This is another pass I respect her and have tried my best to ease her fears over the years about crossdressing and have stuck within our agreed boundaries and conditions and wouldn’t do anything without discussing it with her
9 Dress like a lady – I think I dress well and can advise my wife well. I think I dress my age which is a mistake some crossdressers make and like to dress as passable as possible (Pass)
10 Dress for your body type – As in 9 I dress my age and have good taste so another pass
10/10 Is the type of Crossdresser if you have to be married to you need to be married to lol
1 Present well – I did go through an early phase of dressing trashy but as my wife found the day she came upstairs and met me dressed for the first time I presented well so well I think she was shocked by how i’d done my makeup and what I was wearing expecting me to look like a hooker or a drag queen – So I pass this one
2 Listen to your wife give her time to digest the situation – It was 8 years of talking and negotiation and different levels of acceptance before my wife met me crossdressed so I guess I pass this one too. Great to see some on here and in the blog and emails I’ve had have progressed to acceptance far quicker.
3 Keep it Discrete – Apart from people I chat with and in this Forum and Blog only my wife knows I crossdress and none of the people I chat to etc know male me so my dressing is very discrete so another Pass.
4 War your own clothes – Over the years I’ve worn other womens clothes to get the crossdressing fix but I now have more dresses than my wife, heels, lingerie, makeup etc so another pass.
5 Take Baby steps – As in number 2 we took baby steps of acceptance over a long period of time (too long lol) so I’m half way so Far 50% pass rate
6 No lingerie in bed – It would be fun to have some “fun” in lingerie in bed but i’d honestly prefer my wife to wear the lingerie in bed although I would if it was ok with her but I don’t so another pass.
7 Seek Guidance – I’ve sought lots of guidance from the internet, chatrooms and forums and if my wife had requested I’d have seen a counsellor but the result would have been we’d have talked openly and set boundaries and I’d still crossdress… I think this is a pass
8 Respect your wife – This is another pass I respect her and have tried my best to ease her fears over the years about crossdressing and have stuck within our agreed boundaries and conditions and wouldn’t do anything without discussing it with her
9 Dress like a lady – I think I dress well and can advise my wife well. I think I dress my age which is a mistake some crossdressers make and like to dress as passable as possible (Pass)
10 Dress for your body type – As in 9 I dress my age and have good taste so another pass
10/10 Is the type of Crossdresser if you have to be married to you need to be married to lol