I thought i would start a new thread as it feels appropriate to tell you all whats happend over the weekend.

As some of you will know, i compiled a letter to help my wife come to terms with my crossdressing, after many weeks of trying to find the right words to put down to try and explain what it means to be a CD, how it feels and why we feel the need to dress.

I also wanted to explain to her what my hopes were and to give her reassurances about me and about us as a couple.

I finally gave her that letter last week, and all week the letter had sat on the shelf where she had put it.

On Friday night i decided i would ask if she had read the letter, and she said she had. :)

It was then that we had "The Talk" and i have to say it went very well, at last we were talking and i was able to understand how she felt about things and i was able to tell her more of how i felt.

One of the things i mentioned to her was that i had joined a forum, this forum!, and how it was there to help men who have the need to dress and also that some of the members where the wives and partners of those men.

I asked her if she would be interested in joining it as i thought it would be a good place for her to begin getting an understanding and also to be able to get the right information, she said she would consider it, and so in the near future i hope she will join us here, i can't guarantee she will join but I'm sure if she does you'll all make her welcome.

Most of all she needs her own time now to take in all the information from the letter and what we talked about, we even talked about going out to some of the venues for crossdressers around the country but that is for something in the future.

At the end of the letter as well as my real name i also put Catriona's name, so now she knows Catriona exists.

The last thing I'll mention is that i asked her if she wanted to see a photo of me dressed as Catriona! But we left that one for another time as she had had enough information for one night.

Things have been really good over the weekend and we are both very happy with how we've been able to communicate.

I just wanted to take this opportunity to thank Davina and everyone who has commented and helped so far here on the forum.

Most of all i want to thank Emma Tights for being there everyday for me, and in turn that has helped me to help my wife.

And so it's not just my journey anymore, it's Our journey now and i hope she can be by my side.

I'll keep you all informed of whats going on, and any questions just ask.

Lots of love to all,

Catriona (and wife) xxxx