The advantage of the kids being a bit older is they can stay home together whilst we go out somewhere for an hour or 5..
The disadvantage is nights in dressed could be a thing of the past as they could say we don't need to go to baby sitters any more..
Anyway as in the title its good to talk, me and Esme went out out yesterday for a few drinks in our local a 35 min walk nice view and beer via Phoene app .. Had a few and got onto the subject of all sorts of things and one of them cross dressing.
It a good to open up and discuss and reassure every now and then on the subject..
Its mad the angst it caused early on in our relationship me admitting I was a cross dresser but looking back its was like now few and far between the urge came and went until the time she asked to dress me as a woman which introduced me to makeup and how I could look..
That now is my problem I have to go all the way makeup wig clothing or not at all and that
Means shaving and time to dress unobstructed by the kids and work video calls..
I need to make time next week before the summer hols. One more chill session but I'm longing to have some quality time dressed, have a good sort out of all those dresses in the attic and see how I can style and look in the other two new wigs I bought 18 months ago.
Its reassuring talking that Esme is still OK with me cross dressing so its good to every now and then touch base on the subject however hard it is to bring up..
How's everyone else doing?
I know some of you feel you can't talk to your other halves about it and some struggle to bring it up after telling but we tgirls like to talk and reassure our wives and gfs about what we do.. Good to get things off your chest on both sides.
Funny enough we have talked more but this week I made a major error. One night when the kids were away I told my wife I was going upstairs to "change" meaning I was putting on Sarahs things. I came down in silk pyjamas over bra and panties. My wife was shocked and after a few minutes became tearful. She had not understood what I meant by "change" and I should have made it clear! After a few uncomfortable minutes I changed into male pyjamas and we talked more. It was not the clothes but the unexpected sight of me dressed that she was not prepared for and we have agreed to use a code so she can be prepared for me being dressed. In some ways it was good, as we talked more and came to a much closer understanding, but I realised I took advantage of the situation and should have asked her if she minded before I dressed.
I shave pits every two days and legs at the same time and every four days my crotch arealeaving a landing strip. Over the years I have got faster at shaving and my wife and I share body razor. Face razor is mine only
Sarah811 yes my partner is the same…sharing things brings us close together but she’s not relaxed enough yet to encounter the full falsies/made up/wig ensemble and I can only completely accept and respect this.
Well, unexpected bonus, one of the kids has aligned their shift with the other so will have at least 4 hours tonight as Sarah!
I had a week to myself last week, so really went for it - dressing for a full 3 days. Now I'm back in the closet. It may even be another 15 months before I get the chance, but so be it. At least I felt I got something out of my system.
I really hope you get that time
I need to work on reducing my workload and stress.. Becoming an expert in something you end up in demand and more than just the area you cover. I had someone ask advice from the North West of England Friday I've put them in a queue.. Nothing is easy always needs some analysis and a thorough report.. If I do something its all in all or nothing.. Surveys come up with me being a leader and a completer finisher .. Once I start something I have to finish it. And adds stress on myself let alone things then lumped on by my boss or bosses boss etc.. The outlet is Cross dressing for whatever reason and good to have had another long chat with Esme yesterday about it. Next week I have to squeeze a few hours in as Davina working from home.
My other half is being very understanding and helpful. She is not yet ready to see me in full make up and wig, but the other day I discussed with her a dress I had seen online and she was OK with me ordering it, she also wanted to order some firm control knickers and I saw a pair I liked so we added them to the order! They arrived and hers were fine but last night she got me to try them on over a pair of briefs. They were too tight and rolled down at the waist, so they are going back. I still have not tried on the dress as all the other stuff that makes me Sarah is in the loft and we have not had a couple of hours to ourselves lately, but I might get chance later today.
As for work, well that is getting better as I had some frank discussions with my line managers (I work for two under different projects which is difficult in itself) and the result was that I have reduced my workload and my stress levels as well!