Katie has put some good questions to Karens post on her one year on from finding her husband is a crossdresser.

They're good and valid questions so thought I'd put them here for the wives and GFs here to mull over and maybe answer if you're ok with doing that so here goes.

We as Crossdressers know and hate that wives can go through a lot of torment over the fact we crossdress, if we've confessed to them, they find out or they suspect.

We're lucky to have quite a few wives here who have accepted their husbands dressing. soo...

1. What did you think it meant for your marriage?

2. Did you fear that it would be the end of your marriage?

3. Did you think that him being a crossdresser would mean it would have to end?

4. Did you think he was gay or wanted to be a woman?

5. Did you think that you finding out would mean he would leave you?

6. Or was the reason you felt it might end was because of the secret he had kept and the loss of trust?

7. Was that worse than the crossdressing?

8. Do you still feel that crossdressing is still a big deal in your lives or is it just like another 'hobby' that you can both share?

9. I can imagine that at first it consumed every waking hour but has that changed?

Look forward to seeing what the ladies answer to these questions as we go through so much guilt, frustration and angst and at the same time you're going through a huge mix of emotions and questions and fears.

The Kubler-Ross curve again.

Davina