By: Katie

Subject: The loft whore.

My wife had a joke that men spend so much time closely guarding the contents of there lofts that they must have a whore up there!

I guess in a way I do.

When she first found out about my crossdressing one of her concerns was the condition of the clothes. Were they clean? She seemed horrified by the thought of dirty clothes stuffed in a suitcase.

They weren't which in itself causes a problem. I have to wash and dry them in a limited time frame which is OK during the summer months (full sunshine) or winter (radiators) but the rest of the year is difficult.

I don't want to wash them with hers because it then shoving it in her face. Equally it's me doing things behind her back again which I don't like. Not sure what the answer is but open to suggestions.

The other issue is everything is now stored in a wardrobe and small chest of draws along with my diving gear an other clothes put aways for storage.

It can make everything a bit musty over time and I'd love to have my now draw and place in a wardrobe downstair. Obviously it would need to be inaccessible to prying eyes.! Do you think that this is reasonable or is it a step to far?

One more question. I have often though about telling my sister. I find it difficult to talk to my wife and would like that face to face contact to discuss my crossdressing. Do you think I am within my rights to speak to her without speaking to my wife first? I don't think I should but wonder how you'd feel if your husband spoke to someone else about his crossdressing without telling you first.