Me and my wife havent chatted about my dressing for months. We had a canal walk today kids at home as oldest just about old enough to look after the youngest.. Popped in a pub for a pint.. OK two pints and a porsecco.. before heading back to watch Liverpool v Newcastle 🏆🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿⚽ Yes my normal every day self is a Liverpool fan and raving Alpha Male into sport and thats who my wife knowingly married..but I digress. To the point and how it relates to the heading of this post my wife chimed up about some of the t girls on the site having read up (finally) on some of the posts and we chatted on our walk back from the pub about some of the tgirls and wives on the forum and how she thought certain things, constructive things .. but didn't add her thoughts to the forum.. She doesn't realise as a wife of a cross dresser what she has to offer in terms of advice or opinion as a wife of a tgirl / cross dresser and that goes for all the wives and girlfriends on here add your thoughts and fears and even scold some of the t girls and pull back on our reigns if you feel someone is going too far.. We briefly discussed how she's happy with the fact I don't want to be a woman my dressing is my escapism and how no one would expect I'd do this and would be in genuine shock and that's the other powerful thing about this "nice" forum having tgirls and wives onboard... A tgirl can add a post and test the waters and his/her partner or other partners or tgirls can say hold your horses or ooooo don't say or do that.. Or try this or try that or even normalise things in relation to the grand scheme of life.. So to Esme (My wife) my blog and this forum has given us some form of communication and it was nice today to hear you say you get it and OK with it making this forum part of our communication chain and it should be I hope the same for other t girls and wives in Emma, Hannah, Rebecca spring to mind wives and long standing founding members I know you say this is your place to vent but allowing your tgirl partners to join and contribute will help share the experiances and enrich the forum and help others.. We all miss Sindy and her dragging us back she wasn't a Debbie downer she was like a moderator an are you sure girl? When there was something typed which as a wife she wouldn't be happy with.. We all have different perspectives and levels of acceptance. To Esme who now has the wix app set up it was nice to talk today about this subject as we've not talked "Davina" for ages and hope we get to continue chat later.. It has been 5 months since I last dressed and it must tell in my tempriment.. Love you.. Hoping to see more chatter on here knowing a lot of the girls and wives have come to terms with why we cross dress.. But its a good forum to keep the learning and advice gong especially from those who have come to terms with this weird reality. Particularly as quite a few couples have joined recently.. Come and say hi ... Most of us don't bite lol Davina