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Why do I Crossdress?

i think after 40yrs or so ive maybe reached a point where i almost understand and accept it.

Long gone are the days when i got any sort of "buzz" from the feel of the materials etc on my skin,

Nowadays Ive identified and categorised it as a "hobby" i enjoy..

Much like restoring old cars or stamp collecting, just more glamorous..

I get the same enjoyment from making a good job of my make up, and looking good in a dress and heels

as i do from having a good round of golf or watching my team (dundee united) play.

While dressed it gives me a few hours of some sort or escapism/stress relief from daily life again much like a few hours on a golf course.

When its time to go back to normal life i put Kim away again, and return "home" refreshed.

Maybe im the Tiger Woods of crossdressers, or im just weird...

Tiger btw would make a terrible tranny, even bigger shoulders than me...

Has anyone else identified reasons and come to peace with it all, please share?

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Emma Alta

Mar 22, 2023

Hi Kimberley

Bizarrely, I think I would be at greater peace with it if more people knew. I get most stress relief when I can indulge as Emma when I’m away from home because I am not worried about someone coming home at an unexpected time And I know I have cleared away all traces of make up etc

But then I feel bad knowing that my wife doesn’t know - essentially she doesn’t know I venture out as Emma - don’t do anything naughty hasten to add.

Now she doesnt really want to engage in it so you could say that should be that - but we share and talk about everything else (I don’t think she’s A drag king 😯) so the not sharing is the stresser for me. I think that might be why the need to dress ebbs and flows, it is both a stress reliever but also a stress inducer.

Does that make any kind of sense?!

Davina

Mar 22, 2023

Replying to

Me and Esme are doing a q&a via skype where we find it difficult to talk about Davina a) as its an awkward conversation and b) with kids always about earwigging hard to talk about. Need time do q&a session 3 then maybe I'll edit and publish here as may be useful first others to read a tgirl and a wife's q&as and I agree we talk about everything but struggle on crossdressing and us t girls need to talk and reassure.