By: Davina

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I will see if I can put the vids so they play and don't direct away although the bandwidth on the blog is maxing out each month with visitors which is cool.

Stats show visits from all over the world reading the blog and advice which is so Yay!

By: Katie

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Happily do the cleaning dressed but I'd need to draw the curtains which might look a bit odd during the day!

What is it about french maids?

By: Emma RG

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Get the French maids outfit on Davina and get cleaning I'm sure that would be fun and you'd look great haha.

I'll be on eBay after on for the other half for Christmas now if it means he will be the house cleaner and my maid "Fetch me more wine!"

I think the videos are spot on too and good for anyone finding out about their partner dressing should watch.

Put it on your advice blog as the first thing people see.

Can you I bed the video?

By: Davina

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I bought a French maids outfit for the wife hopig she'd do some tidying up lol she wore it once but I was Davina and wasn't allowed to touch so that dressing session didn't last long as couldn't keep my hands off her so was back in "Alpha Man" mode.

If she said put on the French maids outfit and tidy up id do it tho id have to be fully made up wig stockings heels and all.. she did say the other day knowing I had a day off work that she was tempted to text me to put it on and do some tidying up lol

By: Davina

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Brill Sindy

I thought you might feel the vid is a bit one sided but I thought it was very good especially for someone whos just found out I mean it doesn't cover me fully but a lot of it hit home that she knows her stuff.

By: Sindy

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Well, it's good to know they don't do sex. I have learned something new today. lol x

By: Katie

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My housework is never up to standard either!

crossdressers.com has a lot of members and has a transexual forum within it. As you say it does seem to be slanted towards transexuals as they frequent most parts of the site. They can also be quite vocal as can the out and about brigade. There is only one regularly posting GG.

I've never got the being part woman thing. I guess thats to do with gender dysphoria and not crossdressing. You can feel feminine but not female if that makes sense.

I don't know if it's easier or harder to meet someone these days. I know I'd hate to have to start all over again!

By: Katie

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I had a quick look and it seems that most dominatrix do not have sex. It BDSM thing so the pleasure is in the pain. The dominatrix is in control.

By: Sindy

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But one thought, do dominatrixes have sex with their clients? Some of her married crossdresser patients were seeing dominatrixes. Surely she's not encouraging cheating?

I'm very vanilla remember and don't know much about these things. I feel like I find out about one thing and there's this whole other world I knew nothing about!

By: Sindy

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Actually I found those videos eerily spot on! I suggest these be watched by all new wives as it would certainly remove much of the doubts etc. This doctor seems very knowledgeable and knows not to tangle up the transgender dressers with the ordinary Davina type. I often worry for the women who stumble on that site you have mentioned Katie - crossdressers.com. That is a site top heavy with older men who are clearly closer to the transsexual line. When I used to read there I honestly couldn't spot a single person who reminded me of my husband or Davina. Most seem obsessed with going out in public and how much 'woman' they have inside them. Some even seem to be taking hormones! I think a site like that would terrify most wives.

But these videos are brilliant. And the French maid thing? I am sure my husband would love that option if I told him go for it lol. Problem is, he's terrible at cleaning the house (most likely so he can out of doing it) and I'd only have to clean again after him!

Though, these videos did make me feel for Callie who is posting here looking for female company. Even if we can all agree that the Davina dressing is simple, the problems it causes with finding an accepting partner are not so simple, are they. Even the doctor acknowledged that most women just aren't into it, yet most men would prefer they can dress with a willing woman. What a conflict. So the dominatrix idea sounds useful for the single guy...Callie, maybe this is an option for you? They won't be your friend, but at least you could have someone to indulge it with.