No nothing I hope she returns

Still no one come back? Ahh that's a pity.

We need some new wives involved

Hannah (wife)

Me too nice to hear from other wives and Girlfriends.

We've helped white a few come to terms with cross dressing.

Awww I hope she comes back to us

Hannah (wife)

No ones responded to this maybe I wasn't quick enough and she's not checked back in..

Good advice both

Communication

Empathy

Compromise

Rules

Hannah (wife)

Good advice Davina

I think a wife needs to have questioned prepared and written in front of her and make sure to ask them all in some logical sequence.

Its good to talk and sometimes it can result in tears in our experience happy ones sharing his deepest secret and us finally not clamming up and being open and honest about his dressing and what he likes and our limits.

If a husband is sending too much girly time he may need reminding he's your husband and OK you knowing he dresses and living it the big OK but you want him as a husband first and foremost not rubbing his girl side in your face.

Compromise and acceptance levels are important and only talking and setting rules can do that

Emma (wife)

I'd advise her to sit him down and talk about it and don't allow one another to clam up.

Maybe have some questions written down and dont be afraid to ask them.

Say you want to see more of him and less of her if you think cross dressing is taking over.

Wives need to know what level their husband wants and he needs to know what level you a wife is happy with.

For the tgirl I'd say pull in those reigns and slow down and have a look at the effects on your wife.

Crossdressing can be like a kid in a sweet shop if you gain some acceptance but have to control it and take time and move bit by bit with a lot of talking along the way.

Davina