4th day in a row for me

It was a one off nobnore messages left nothing said..

Nice to be thought of as an inspiration .. if I was braver I'd be on YouTube as Davina like Juliette Noir was explaining the benefits of Crossdressing and destigmatising the nonsense people spout about it.. glad you appreciate my ramblings on my blog.. therapeutic to tap it all out on the keyboard then as AI to make a cartoon version of me dressed.

Who is this sexy Davina lol

When I dated my wife crossdressing was next to nothing. We moved in together it was scarce. We got married it was still scarce. She asked to dress me as a woman and put makeup on me. That escalated and ignited my crossdressing. I think if I'd told my GF/Then wife of my crossdressing when dating we'd not have made it to husband and wife for the sake of the few times per year back then I tried things on. It doesn't compare to presenting fully fem now. We all have different reasons and extents to dressing. It's bliss when a wife accepts but we always want to assure our wives were ok.

It's great when wives accept.. we've only really had the one argument in 24 years which incidentally was around sex life .. nothing to do with cheating or anything like that just at that time in our lives a lack of sex life which sparked an argument and she threw my crossdressing at me. The one and only time but it must be a trigger of some sort deep in my wife's conscience.

Sad to hear but that is the risk of putting trust in someone on this lifestyle / hobby of ours is in anger or revenge it's a weapon to ridicule us with knowing people won't understand Crossdressing.

I had a message left on my work phone "I know you're a crossdresser" nothing since.. I opted for the do nothing and hope it goes away.

I've had similar with a voicemail on my work phone someone putting an accent on I know you're a crossdresser but then nothing.. I ignored it it went away.

The forum is a world of info lol

Crossdressing for me has been a part of me all my life since I was a kid and continues rapidly into my middle aged.. will I still present fem when older who knows but the urges to dress is there at times of stress and boredom.. The sexual turn on has always been there turned on by lingerie, stockings heels and how I can look and how it feels on but that's not a driving factor .. chilling out the magical effect of becoming "Davina" from transformation to Davina doing my makeup to just chilling as Davina is therapeutic I step out of my alpha male self for a bit and after changing back it has a lasting effect.. Struggling for time to dress at the moment it's been 2 months since I was last able to work from home dressed and with school summer holidays and my oldests now off uni till September little chance to dress at home.. which sucks.

Nothing like that near me I don't think

I Mia's Sindy. Although she was supportive in a lot of ways she was also a voice of reason and caution amongst the original wivea here.. Wish she'd give us an update on how she's doing. Yes Crossdreasing can escalate.

Thanks I hoped it might help others also to read the thoughts or a crossdresser with years of thinking about why I do this and the assurance to my wife and how she's accepted this part of me .. seems offering that help I broke a rule .. easily fixed remove the post contact me telling me I'm not allowed to post it there instead of the patronising response I had then a followup saying I was aggressive.. ah well skin off a ducks back I won't offer help again .. it's a two way thing communication needs to be open and there's a way of typing things too without being inflammatory. Even accused me of trying to promote my blog.. I'm not promoting it it's there if anyone's interested in the inner thoughts of a typical crossdresser and on the forum posts by both T-Girls and wives and girlfriends.

I've decided to concentrate more on getting my thoughts and feelings into my personal blog so may not add here as often but there's plenty of resources and chats here to keep eveyone going as as some do i'm still here to message via the app.. I've got 3 members of the personal blog now tripled lol I need to advertise it more maybe on TVchix see whos interested in the ramblings of a mad t girl

Thankyou I hope if other wives and GFs read this they see your comment as a loving and accepting wife as some may think what I've written is bias towards T-Girls written by a "Man" ♥️

For some like myself I had no idea my occasional dressing would blossom into Davina.. I was already married when the frequency of my dressing really took off.

I think a lot of wives panic and feel repulsed around Crossdressing but there's a lot more to it .. it's not a perversion (for some it it), it doesn't mean you're gonna run off with a man (for some maybe), in the whole talking and explaining and finding levels of acceptance can open up new aspects in a relationship. Give it a chance it's not a relationship ender

My daughter has always had more boys as friends.. mid teens now and she's just started with makeup and dressing more fem.. for years it's been football jerseys and sports leggings or shorts.. my upbringing was all boys but when I wasn't playing sport with the boys when I got opportunity I was in lingerie and stockings

I asked chat gp to make an action figure of my wife input her in a little black dress, hair down, makeup, red lips, black stockings and heels.. her answer was I'd be in leggings or trousers flat shoes hair up and a blouse... 😭.. I expect if I was a woman I'd be similar but I do love matching lingerie, tights and heels with a nice dress.