Query
I DISCOVERED some women’s clothing which wasn’t mine in a drawer in the spare bedroom.
At first I thought my husband must be having an affair but they were a very large size.
Then the penny dropped – he has been wearing them himself.
I was so shocked it took me a while to say anything and initially he blamed me for pressure I put on him.
Then he blamed work stresses and life’s pressures generally.
We have been married for 20 years and have a teenage son. We are 48 and 49.
I don’t know what to do. The thought of it makes me feel sick.
Agony Aunt advice
Cross-dressing is more common than many realise. Dressing as a woman gives your husband temporary release from the pressures he feels as a man.
It has come as a shock to you but he’s harming no-one. It’s a shame he kept this secret from you – but maybe understandable?
If your relationship has been strong till now, say it’s hard but you’re trying to understand. My e-leaflet Worried About Cross-Dressing? details support.
But stress that for now he should not cross-dress while your son is around.
What would you advise?
Awwww its a shame more don't find this forum
Emma (Wife)
We need a balance in the crossdressing universe
If more men crossdressed the world may be a more peaceful place and more chilled out. What did KAtie share ah yes let women dress as men and take over and men dress as women, after all look at New Zealand run by a woman covid free.
Hannah (Wife)
No point writing to an agony aunt need to sit down and talk this through. This is a lot more like what we're used to chatting about here the escapism stress relief element. Worth again this couple being with bus here helping to make a resolution. Davina
Another case of escaping the male life and stresses which i think is becoming the more common theme.
She should compromise and let him dress to unwind i think and upto her if she wants to get involved or not or leave him to this but we all know you t girls like to talk about it and assure us and want us involved.
Emma (Wife)