Query

WHEN my wife suggested I dress up in her stockings and suspenders, I nearly fell off the bed.

We are both 41 and have been married for 12 years.

We’ve always had a great sex life, or so I thought, but one night my wife suggested spicing things up. I didn’t mind the thought of being more adventurous but I’m a 6ft 2in “man’s man” and I’ve never been into cross-dressing.

I was shocked that she wanted to try that of all things.

She says it will really turn her on but I think it’s weird. I haven’t done it yet

Agony Aunt reply

Nobody should feel they have to do anything sexually that does not appeal to them.

A good sex life is all about compromise and finding what you can both enjoy.

Tell your wife that cross-dressing isn’t for you but you’re happy to experiment.

My e-leaflet 50 Ways To Add Fun To Sex can help you find alternatives to both enjoy.

What would you advise?