Davina - Here’s an awkward one.. One of my arguments with our female counterparts.. We date our partner / spouse / girlfriend and like the peacock they show their feathers.. Heels short skirts red lips etc.. At some point in time this stops.. Usually when married and settled as the wife is content.. She’s changed in this contentment but we haven’t.. But there’s no more high heels .. maybe for a wedding or a girls night out.. Sometimes with you but she moans her feet kill her and no sexy lingerie.. Sometimes not even matching lingerie. What can we do to change this, challenge it or even bring this up without the silent treatment.

This article has a crack at is but i’ve skim read it and misses the mark lol. Here we go

Sometimes a spouse begins to feel as if the challenge and appeal of keeping her partner is gone. 

Encouraging your wife to dress sexier is a delicate issue that needs a bit of finesse and patience. 

Compliments, playfulness, relighting the fire of passion and going shopping with your wife are ways to get her back into looking like the sexy woman she is.

Begin to appreciate honestly your wife for who she is presently. 

She'll sense you wanting her to change if you don't accept her for exactly the way she chooses to be, so the change must start with you. 

Appreciate every piece of clothing and what it represents to her.

Compliment her body when she's naked. 

Tell her how great she looks, that she's extremely sexy and that you'd like to see her naked more often. 

This will do wonders for her self-esteem. 

If your wife truly believes she looks good naked, a low-cut shirt is no big deal.

Have fun and be playful. 

Grab her and kiss her passionately. 

Do all the things you did when you first were trying to win her heart. 

Rekindling the romance of the relationship will make her want to make an effort to be sexier automatically.

Go shopping with your wife and ask her to try on certain pieces of clothing. 

If you want her to wear tighter clothing, tell her she's not that big and to buy the next size down. 

This will make her feel wonderful. 

Davina - Was this written by a man??

Be encouraging about everything she puts on, but be ecstatic about the pieces that are most like what you're looking for her to incorporate into her wardrobe.

Davina - Or just come out and tell her you want to see her with tights and heels on, maybe a dress and matching lingerie, stockings and suspenders… red lippy dark eyeshadow etc etc and she may say “Why don’t you wear that lot if you’re so into it… Voila Permission to be a Crossdresser from your wife.. Case closed.

Davina 🙂