I think this woman’s experience is fairly typical but I fear that a lot of women are compromising their own happiness to maintain the marriage. I think as cross dressers we have an obligation to be honest with partners before pursuing a commitment. I’m just as guilty as everyone else in this regard and I feel like my wife doesn’t derserve to have to deal with this so I compartmentalize and dress when I can without her involvement. She is tolerant but not encouraging.
When I dated my wife crossdressing was next to nothing.
We moved in together it was scarce.
We got married it was still scarce.
She asked to dress me as a woman and put makeup on me.
That escalated and ignited my crossdressing.
I think if I'd told my GF/Then wife of my crossdressing when dating we'd not have made it to husband and wife for the sake of the few times per year back then I tried things on.
It doesn't compare to presenting fully fem now.
We all have different reasons and extents to dressing.
It's bliss when a wife accepts but we always want to assure our wives were ok.
I think this woman’s experience is fairly typical but I fear that a lot of women are compromising their own happiness to maintain the marriage. I think as cross dressers we have an obligation to be honest with partners before pursuing a commitment. I’m just as guilty as everyone else in this regard and I feel like my wife doesn’t derserve to have to deal with this so I compartmentalize and dress when I can without her involvement. She is tolerant but not encouraging.