By: Katie
Subject: Tolerance, acceptance and ground rules.
Hi
I think that we've gone on quite a journey together and it would be really helpful as a guide to us crossdressers what sort of behaviour you have learned to accept and tolerate and what behaviour is a definite no-no.
I know that this will differ from GG to GG but I'm sure that there is some common ground. With these boundaries in place I think life would be easier for all concerned.
So ladies some common ground rules.
By: Emma RG
Subject: Re: Re: Tolerance, acceptance and ground rules.
Agreed I can tolerate
Dressing privately or
Dressing when I'm there as long as I know he will be dressed or its a girls night in
Shaving as I prefer him smooth than hairy anyway but not his legs as that might be a give away in the summer when he wears shorts - like Davina hes blonde his legs are hairy he does shave above his stocking tops which is nice and smooth but with 80-100 denier stockings there is no sign that his legs are hairy
Online purchases are ok but sent to home or buy things in shops I don't mind seeing him embarrassed making female purchases
Definite no-nos:
Public dressing as i'm not ready and may never be ready for him to be out in public dressed although I will admit he could possibly pass in public
Dressing around the kids! - absolutely no reason for them to know it would be too confusing
Telling others without my knowledge, and even then I'd wonder why he's telling people - exactly the same its our secret it took me time to understand living with him reading this blog and talking other people would not have that opportunity to gain an understanding
Wearing nail polish all the time - he doesn't wear nail polish but I did get him some false nails once lol
The final thing Sindy didn't put is meeting other crossdressers behind my back which I read some do and this can lead to sexual liaisons which would be more than a deal breaker
I'm glad he's the "Davina type crossdresser" no trans issues, doesn't want to be a woman, straight and loyal and just finds enjoyment in crossdressing.
I've re-read a lot of Davinas blog and her wifes (him her what to call Davina lol) and like Davina and his / her wife I think of it as fancy dress its not too serious and we're reached a level or plateau were ok with.
By: Sindy
Subject: Re: Tolerance, acceptance and ground rules.
For me personally, I can tolerate:
Dressing privately away from the kids and I
Shaving
Online purchases sent to his work
Definite no-nos:
Public dressing
Dressing around the kids!
Telling others without my knowledge, and even then I'd wonder why he's telling people
Wearing nail polish all the time
Basically bringing this behavior into our everyday family life would be a deal breaker. I don't know about women married to men who are trans, but the 'Davina type crossdressing', in my opinion, doesn't belong in everyday life.