I have a question that I'm sure I've asked before but can't recall.

Why do you think there is so much discussion on crossdressing sites about actually turning into women? Many even discuss an increasing desire to have real breasts, long nails etc. In the same sentence, they'll also mention that they don't want to transition and like being a guy. I find this very confusing and can't help wondering if this isn't a progressive 'condition', and maybe even a mental disorder.

I also wonder if crossdressing isn't like an addiction. Does it have addictive properties? Do you sometimes feel controlled rather than in control of the compulsion?

It's these internet discussions that sway my mind on whether I think crossdressing is healthy and harmless. I don't think people ordering dodgy hormones online to grow boobs, or missing work hours and family time to obsess over clothing and fantasise about being female, is healthy behavior at all. Yet, it also doesn't seem that uncommon. Will you guys be honest here, and tell me the truth that you've never had these thoughts? Or have you?

If you're not transsexual, then seriously, wtf is this all about??