Hi everyone,

Some of you have known me through this forum for years now—from when Why Do Men Crossdress first launched back in 2017.

It’s been incredible seeing this space grow into a supportive, understanding community for crossdressers and their partners. I’ve had countless messages from t-girls and wives alike, and it means the world to know this forum has helped people come to terms with something that can be so confusing and isolating.

But recently, I’ve felt the need to go a bit more personal again.

I’ve started a new blog: Why I crossdress

It’s more intimate—more about my journey as Davina. A place to put my thoughts down again like I did in the early days.

I talk honestly about the emotions, the reasons I dress, the balance with family life, and everything from lingerie to identity. It’s not just about makeup and heels—it’s about why this part of me matters, how I navigate it, and what it’s taught me about myself.

If you’ve ever read something on this forum and thought “That’s me too,” I think you’ll find something in the blog you relate to. And if your partner’s ever asked, “Why do you do this?”—maybe sharing a post or two from my blog might help.

Here’s what you’ll find on the blog:

• My honest reasons for crossdressing (with a pie chart to explain it!)

• Reflections on the emotional side of dressing

• Discussions about family, relationships, and finding balance

• A bit of fun with my favourite looks and styles

• Plans and dreams for Davina’s future

  
  

I’m still posting on the forum and answering messages, and I’d love your feedback or suggestions.

If it helps even one more person feel a little less alone or gives a wife a bit more understanding—then it’s worth every word.

Thanks for reading and for all your support here over the years.

Davina

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https://cdtra007.wixsite.com/mysite/blog