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There are some moments in life you never forget — not because they were planned, but because they pushed you somewhere you never thought you’d go. My first step in heels out as Davina was exactly that kind of moment. I was away with work, checked into a quiet regular hotel and finally had the space to present fully fem: heels, stockings, dress, makeup. I went online and started chatting with other T-girls and wives of T-girls on a site I used, with one of them joining me on

There are mornings when something simple — the sight of my wife getting dressed for work — hits me harder than I expect. Today was one of them. She looked gorgeous in a black-and-white dotty dress, black tights, heeled boots, and makeup. Feminine in that natural way women can be, especially when they’ve had years of practice making themselves look and feel amazing. She was afraid she may be showing cleavage.. Flaunt it I say. And as always, watching her stirred something ins

I never expected that work trip to give me any chance to dress. Four days away with two colleagues, sharing meals, spending every evening working on audit notes — it didn’t exactly scream “private time.”But I still packed everything. The makeup. The hosiery. The heeled boots. The lingerie. The wig. A couple of dresses.Just in case. When we checked into the hotel, there was a problem with my room. Annoying at first — until they upgraded me. A big business-class room on the fir

I’ve started listening to podcasts again on my early morning walks — four miles in the dark before the world wakes up. There’s something liberating about striding through the quiet streets in my exercise leggings, luminous jacket, and LED hat light cutting a beam through the chill. These walks, the new diet, and a healthier routine have done wonders for my mood and shape. It’s me time  — and, more often than not, time to think about Davina. This morning’s company was Erika an

For over two decades, I’ve worked in a traditionally masculine environment — problem-solving under pressure, leading teams, and staying calm when things go wrong. It’s the kind of work that demands precision, reliability, and confidence.I love what I do, and I’m proud of the impact I’ve had throughout my career. Most people who know me professionally would describe me as confident. Capable. Maybe even “alpha.” And they’d be right — I thrive on being someone others can rely on

🎄 Something unexpected happened this week — My wife and her friends as is some sort of tradition in the UK are booked to go to a "Christmas Market" Someone pulled out due to other commitments and I said to my wife "I'm not doing anything that day I'll come with you" She checked with the girls and they said why not - But she also promised them I'll carry all the bags.. Hmmm 'It sounds like they plan on making me submissive' Lol So and this is now Davina's perspective "I’ve be

Halloween always brings a flurry of creativity — face paint, wigs, and last-minute rummaging through drawers for “just the right shade of lipstick. ”This year, our kids decided to dig through the makeup drawers in our bedroom, on the hunt for Halloween inspiration. I checked with my wife they didn't ask!! My makeup top draw was open and my lipstick bag unzipped and I never leave it unzipped and hadn't been in there and on the coffee table one of my red lipsticks.. Or I assume

It’s funny how the crossdressing urge sneaks up on you. I haven’t dressed for a few weeks, but packing my dresses away for winter gave me such a pang — “You miss me, don’t you?” This morning, standing on the platform twenty minutes early, I saw a woman — long dark hair, denim skirt, ankle boots, black tights — and thought, “Lucky woman, she gets to go to work dressed like that.” All around me were women in skirts, dresses, tights, boots, makeup… and there I was, in black trou

There’s a particular kind of excitement that comes with a discreet parcel arriving at the door — not just any delivery, but one that...

All the years wondering why I crossdress is the answer that I'm two spirited but the male part of my spirit is the one that has to step...

Monday I managed a few hours as Davina, working from home in a lovely green dress. It was a refreshing way to start the week—slipping...

There’s a unique kind of stress that comes from being someone who's driven to get things done to improve things.. it can create self...

AI knows nothing about male me but I have used AI to explore why I crossdress and to aid me making images for my blogs.. So after a few...

I listened recently to a podcast on The Weekly Hot Spot about being a switch, and it struck a chord with me. It made me think about who I...

Sometimes the stars nearly align. The house is quiet, I can feel the stress of the week ready to melt away, and Davina is waiting just...

On Saturday we were in Cardiff, out shopping. And we ended up in Marks & Spencer. For me, M&S always carries a bit of nostalgia—it was my...

This week saw the return of Davina. For the first time in ages, I managed two days in a row as Davina — Thursday and Friday. I think...

Today, I grabbed an opportunity to be Davina while I had the house to myself. Pink lingerie, a matching dress, tights, heels, and full...

​The last few weeks have been a blur of work, travel, and stress. The result? My usual attempted healthy habits have fallen by the...

My wife had a sort out in the bedroom Saturday and when I asked about the black bags my wife was sorting through, I was told firmly, “No,...