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Today, I'm dressed as Davina despite the growing heat — An opportunity ahead of a meeting mid day so a few hours before it's too hot and...

Today is my birthday. Messages flood in from friends, family, old colleagues, and people who know me simply as Alpha Man!! —the everyday,...

Getting the right wig isn’t just about hair—it’s about identity, confidence, and how we see ourselves when we look in the mirror. For...

Last night I found myself up in the attic, making space, doing something mundane—repacking some black bin bags which stored clothes if...

There’s something quietly thrilling happening in "Pop music" fashion lately — a revival of sensuality, elegance, and empowered femininity...

Pride Cymru happened recently in Cardiff, and while I didn’t go, I’ve seen the usual photos and coverage trickle through social media. Ok...

The past couple of days, I’ve been to two different shopping centres. Both were packed. Not a sign of the so-called "dying high street"...

Sometimes, it's the smallest moments that catch you off guard—in the gentlest, accidental, coincidental and most meaningful ways. Out...

Out shopping yesterday and today, I couldn’t help but notice something I’ve observed many times before: Among the hundreds of women going...

Fridays Outfit This past week has been so nice.. The house was mine for a rare stretch—five whole days—and I planned to take full...

Crossdressing is complicated, deeply personal—and sometimes laced with guilt or shame. Not always, and not forever. But enough to matter...

I think the answer is yes. I would wouldn't I as I'm a crossdresser and I'd want women to believe me, to give crossdressers a chance.....

It’s one of the hardest questions for someone like me to answer—because it’s not theoretical. It’s lived and sometimes it's awkward and...

One thing I've learned over the years—through trial, error, and way too many outfit selfies—is that not all necklines are created equal,...

Maybe it's the fact I've had more opportunity to crossdress recently and this week have 5 days of potential crossdressing. . Enjoyed two...

When we hear stories of partners who not only accept but actively support a crossdresser in their life, it can stir up hope, reflection,...

Reading and listening to Nikki (Heidi Phox wife) yesterday and commenting on their interview I went on line last night seeking other...

Heidi Phox and Wife interview - With Davinas notes  https://youtu.be/2JBlsnCjEWA?si=DJtx6CWXrjv6sSA9 I linked a blog to a My Girl Life...

I'm on Reddit, like a lot of us are. I answer questions there — from other t-girls trying to understand themselves, from wives looking to...

Over the years, I’ve often thought about what I call the trans spectrum —a range that starts, quite simply, with a man trying on a pair...