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Life has a way of putting things into perspective when something truly important comes up. Today, for example, it was our daughter’s...

I'm pretty rubbish at this but determined to spark me and my wife talking about my crossdressing side a lot more as I need it but not if...

When a husband comes out as a crossdresser, it’s not only a personal revelation—it’s a relationship shift.  While he may be relieved to...

Coming out as a crossdresser to your partner can feel like one of the scariest and most vulnerable steps you’ll ever take.  For many of...

For many wives or girlfriends of crossdressers, hearing that their partner has chosen a female name can feel unsettling. It can raise...

This morning I went out for my now usual 06:00 4 mile exercise pre-work - My wife couldn't get out of bed to join me 2nd day running two...

This morning I did our exercise up and early walk alone. No arm-in-arm company. No shared observations about things we see on our routine...

Have you ever noticed how there's always something ? Something to worry about. Something urgent to deal with. Something pulling your...

Sometimes in the evening, after the day winds down and the house quiets, I find myself reflecting on how surreal my life as a...

If I were to help write your book, I think it would describe you as: by AI after many online app chats about crossdressing and me....

Strange thing but I've been exploring the why I crossdress with AI and after everything I've discussed I asked it to do a Q&A which is...

Before I accidentally came out to my wife, crossdressing was something that came and went in my life—rare, occasional moments starting...

The night I came out to my wife wasn’t planned — I was a crossdresser, trying on clothing only, no makeup, not trying to present fully as...

Now making this a trilogy as the thoughts come to me on colour co-ordinating and people watching. If you met me in everyday life, you'd...

This follow on from the last post on People watching. I’ve always believed in presenting well . Even in my everyday life — as a man — I...

There's something my wife and I often do when we go "out out" — something private, harmless, and honestly a lot of fun. We people-watch....

Living a secret crossdressing life sometimes creates little moments where the two worlds almost collide . Slipping up with my words....

It’s funny how often the topic of crossdressing crops up among friends, family, and even work colleagues — often slipped into jokes or...

Some secrets you can whisper out loud, and still keep hidden. This is a quick story of how I, without planning it, told  my wife's best...

I'm feeling constructive and my fingers have been on fire with ideas for this blog this week so here's something a bit different.....