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Halloween always brings a flurry of creativity — face paint, wigs, and last-minute rummaging through drawers for “just the right shade of lipstick. ”This year, our kids decided to dig through the makeup drawers in our bedroom, on the hunt for Halloween inspiration. I checked with my wife they didn't ask!! My makeup top draw was open and my lipstick bag unzipped and I never leave it unzipped and hadn't been in there and on the coffee table one of my red lipsticks.. Or I assume

It’s funny how the crossdressing urge sneaks up on you. I haven’t dressed for a few weeks, but packing my dresses away for winter gave me such a pang — “You miss me, don’t you?” This morning, standing on the platform twenty minutes early, I saw a woman — long dark hair, denim skirt, ankle boots, black tights — and thought, “Lucky woman, she gets to go to work dressed like that.” All around me were women in skirts, dresses, tights, boots, makeup… and there I was, in black trou

There’s a particular kind of excitement that comes with a discreet parcel arriving at the door — not just any delivery, but one that...

All the years wondering why I crossdress is the answer that I'm two spirited but the male part of my spirit is the one that has to step...

Monday I managed a few hours as Davina, working from home in a lovely green dress. It was a refreshing way to start the week—slipping...

There’s a unique kind of stress that comes from being someone who's driven to get things done to improve things.. it can create self...

AI knows nothing about male me but I have used AI to explore why I crossdress and to aid me making images for my blogs.. So after a few...

I listened recently to a podcast on The Weekly Hot Spot about being a switch, and it struck a chord with me. It made me think about who I...

Sometimes the stars nearly align. The house is quiet, I can feel the stress of the week ready to melt away, and Davina is waiting just...

On Saturday we were in Cardiff, out shopping. And we ended up in Marks & Spencer. For me, M&S always carries a bit of nostalgia—it was my...

This week saw the return of Davina. For the first time in ages, I managed two days in a row as Davina — Thursday and Friday. I think...

Today, I grabbed an opportunity to be Davina while I had the house to myself. Pink lingerie, a matching dress, tights, heels, and full...

​The last few weeks have been a blur of work, travel, and stress. The result? My usual attempted healthy habits have fallen by the...

My wife had a sort out in the bedroom Saturday and when I asked about the black bags my wife was sorting through, I was told firmly, “No,...

Lately, I’ve been feeling like life has slipped into a bit of a rut. I love the summer so why am I feeling like this.. I get the winter...

Recently, I had one of those moments that made me smile from ear to ear. I listen to a podcast called The Weekly Hot Spot , hosted by...

“ Summer for me is a sparse time for expressing myself as Davina for a few reasons, the kids off school for 6 weeks and no private time,...

The UK government today announced plans to introduce more facial recognition cameras. It got me thinking — if I go out as Davina, would...

91. How long does it take you to get all dressed up? Years of dressing, having to hide it, even after telling my wife (The rule...

81. If you could go somewhere on the planet where not one soul knew who you were and publicly dress, would you? Yes - It’s a buzz being...