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Pride Cymru done and dusted what did it achieve for the T?
Pride Cymru happened recently in Cardiff, and while I didn’t go, I’ve seen the usual photos and coverage trickle through social media. Ok...
Davina Legs
Jun 23, 20254 min read


High Street or on line fem shopping?
The past couple of days, I’ve been to two different shopping centres. Both were packed. Not a sign of the so-called "dying high street"...
Davina Legs
Jun 22, 20253 min read


A private joke "Such a girl!"
Sometimes, it's the smallest moments that catch you off guard—in the gentlest, accidental, coincidental and most meaningful ways. Out...
Davina Legs
Jun 22, 20252 min read


When a Crossdresser’s Effort Outshines Reality: Not Competition, Just Care and wanting to look the part
Out shopping yesterday and today, I couldn’t help but notice something I’ve observed many times before: Among the hundreds of women going...
Davina Legs
Jun 22, 20253 min read


My Pride Week
Fridays Outfit This past week has been so nice.. The house was mine for a rare stretch—five whole days—and I planned to take full...
Davina Legs
Jun 20, 20254 min read


How Do You Handle the Guilt or Shame?
Crossdressing is complicated, deeply personal—and sometimes laced with guilt or shame. Not always, and not forever. But enough to matter...
Davina Legs
Jun 19, 20253 min read


Does Cross dressing make better husbands?
I think the answer is yes. I would wouldn't I as I'm a crossdresser and I'd want women to believe me, to give crossdressers a chance.....
Davina Legs
Jun 18, 20254 min read


How Much Should You Compromise for Your Wife or Partner?
It’s one of the hardest questions for someone like me to answer—because it’s not theoretical. It’s lived and sometimes it's awkward and...
Davina Legs
Jun 18, 20254 min read


Why V-Necks Are Your Best Friend
One thing I've learned over the years—through trial, error, and way too many outfit selfies—is that not all necklines are created equal,...
Davina Legs
Jun 18, 20252 min read


Contemplating my place on the Trans Spectrum - It varies from time to time but i know where i am right now
Maybe it's the fact I've had more opportunity to crossdress recently and this week have 5 days of potential crossdressing. . Enjoyed two...
Davina Legs
Jun 17, 20252 min read


What We Can Learn from Nikki and Heidis interview
When we hear stories of partners who not only accept but actively support a crossdresser in their life, it can stir up hope, reflection,...
Davina Legs
Jun 17, 20254 min read


Real Stories of Support: Wives Who Said ‘Yes’
Reading and listening to Nikki (Heidi Phox wife) yesterday and commenting on their interview I went on line last night seeking other...
Davina Legs
Jun 17, 20254 min read


Wow - Another wifes perspective this is great - watch then read my comments..
Heidi Phox and Wife interview - With Davinas notes https://youtu.be/2JBlsnCjEWA?si=DJtx6CWXrjv6sSA9 I linked a blog to a My Girl Life...
Davina Legs
Jun 16, 202519 min read


Crossdressing misconception sexualisation and abuse
I'm on Reddit, like a lot of us are. I answer questions there — from other t-girls trying to understand themselves, from wives looking to...
Davina Legs
Jun 15, 20253 min read


Mapping the trans spectrum
Over the years, I’ve often thought about what I call the trans spectrum —a range that starts, quite simply, with a man trying on a pair...
Davina Legs
Jun 14, 20253 min read


Part 3: "Is This My Fault?"
After my wife asked if I was gay, and whether I wanted to be a woman, she paused for a moment. Then came a softer, more vulnerable...
Davina Legs
Jun 13, 20256 min read


Part 2: Do you want to be a woman
I guess this is part 2 following "Are you Gay" in a mini blog series of my wifes initial questions when i came out as a Crossdresser...
Davina Legs
Jun 13, 20255 min read


Part 1: "Are You Gay?"
I posted this the other day or a version of this and it seems to have dissapeaered as I've moved to Part 2 do you want to be a woman and...
Davina Legs
Jun 12, 20254 min read


Pronouns: A Matter of Politeness, Not Overwrought Politics
I'm an LGTBQ+ Ally but i seem to be stomping on pride and drag queens and now pronouns. . Just silly things to me which bug me more than...
Davina Legs
Jun 10, 20253 min read


An email from an admirer from Tvchix .. What would my wife think lol
I had this email from a random guy I've never chatted with before but he's seen my profile pics and read my profile on TV Chix. I've...
Davina Legs
Jun 9, 20252 min read
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