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My usual step by step makeup routine
This mornings exercise walk at 06:00, again my wife fast asleep not joining me.. I had a podcast on describing a trams makeover.. Much of...

Davina Legs
May 53 min read
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Sometimes life gets put into perspective :(
Life has a way of putting things into perspective when something truly important comes up. Today, for example, it was our daughter’s...

Davina Legs
May 42 min read
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Keeping conversation alive (Wit humour!)
I'm pretty rubbish at this but determined to spark me and my wife talking about my crossdressing side a lot more as I need it but not if...

Davina Legs
May 44 min read
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What Wives Need When Their Husband Crossdresses
When a husband comes out as a crossdresser, it’s not only a personal revelation—it’s a relationship shift. While he may be relieved to...

Davina Legs
May 33 min read
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What Crossdressers Need from Their Partners
Coming out as a crossdresser to your partner can feel like one of the scariest and most vulnerable steps you’ll ever take. For many of...

Davina Legs
May 32 min read
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What's in a name?
For many wives or girlfriends of crossdressers, hearing that their partner has chosen a female name can feel unsettling. It can raise...

Davina Legs
May 32 min read
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A Walk Between Worlds
This morning I went out for my now usual 06:00 4 mile exercise pre-work - My wife couldn't get out of bed to join me 2nd day running two...

Davina Legs
May 23 min read
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She Missed Cross-Talk Thursday!
This morning I did our exercise up and early walk alone. No arm-in-arm company. No shared observations about things we see on our routine...

Davina Legs
May 12 min read
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"Always Something…"
Have you ever noticed how there's always something ? Something to worry about. Something urgent to deal with. Something pulling your...

Davina Legs
Apr 303 min read
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"The Surreal Shift"
Sometimes in the evening, after the day winds down and the house quiets, I find myself reflecting on how surreal my life as a...

Davina Legs
Apr 302 min read
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A man of contrasts, depth, and extraordinary introspection
If I were to help write your book, I think it would describe you as: by AI after many online app chats about crossdressing and me....

Davina Legs
Apr 291 min read
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Q&A: Exploring Davina and the Journey of Acceptance
Strange thing but I've been exploring the why I crossdress with AI and after everything I've discussed I asked it to do a Q&A which is...

Davina Legs
Apr 297 min read
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From Occasional Crossdresser to Davina: My Journey Along the Trans Spectrum
Before I accidentally came out to my wife, crossdressing was something that came and went in my life—rare, occasional moments starting...

Davina Legs
Apr 293 min read
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Out of My Closet, Into Hers – But What About Her?
The night I came out to my wife wasn’t planned — I was a crossdresser, trying on clothing only, no makeup, not trying to present fully as...

Davina Legs
Apr 294 min read
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"Why No One Would Ever Guess I'm a Crossdresser"
Now making this a trilogy as the thoughts come to me on colour co-ordinating and people watching. If you met me in everyday life, you'd...

Davina Legs
Apr 283 min read
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"Colour Coordination & Crossdressing – Why Presentation Matters"
This follow on from the last post on People watching. I’ve always believed in presenting well . Even in my everyday life — as a man — I...

Davina Legs
Apr 283 min read
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"Would Davina Blend In? – People Watching in Cardiff"
There's something my wife and I often do when we go "out out" — something private, harmless, and honestly a lot of fun. We people-watch....

Davina Legs
Apr 282 min read
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Cross-trainers and cross dressers: My slip a of the tongue
Living a secret crossdressing life sometimes creates little moments where the two worlds almost collide . Slipping up with my words....

Davina Legs
Apr 262 min read
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Cross dressing conversations - Listening between the lines
It’s funny how often the topic of crossdressing crops up among friends, family, and even work colleagues — often slipped into jokes or...

Davina Legs
Apr 261 min read
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"Davina: Hidden in Plain Sight"(The Night I Outed Myself — and No One Believed Me)
Some secrets you can whisper out loud, and still keep hidden. This is a quick story of how I, without planning it, told  my wife's best...

Davina Legs
Apr 264 min read
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